"They are not giving you a hard time,
they are having a hard time."

Welcome to Parenting Tots to Tweens

I’m a mum of four children, so I understand how challenging parenting can be at times. My children are aged 2 to 12 years old (girls & boys, neurotypical & neurodiverse, twins & singletons).

I’m a qualified Parenting Coach, as well as a nurse with over 20 years experience; I therefore bring a calm, non-judgemental approach to my coaching.

You’ve tried everything, but nothings working. Whether it’s sleep difficulties, stressful mornings getting your child to school or just family life in general, I can help you. My mission is to support parents through a transformative six-session 1:1 programme, offering a low demand parenting approach that can make a real difference. I aim to help you meet your child's unique needs, just as I did with my own, and transform your family life for the better.

1:1 Parenting Courses

Whether you’re struggling with your toddler or your child has reached their tweens, I offer a course tailored to your needs.

Parenting Advisory

Experienced in navigating the complexities of PDA as well as the EHCP process.

Blog

Read my own parenting stories including school refusal and PDA parenting.

Jess Evans - Aylesbury

Literally invaluable advice and guidance! Sue was a godsend when we were struggling with our daughter's mood swings and anxiety issues. Thank you!

What My Clients Say

I’m Susan Janes, a qualified parenting coach and mum of four

Are you fed up with shouting? Does your child have meltdowns? Do you want a calmer, happier household?

I can help by giving you the techniques needed to ensure your child grows up happy, confident and independent.

Services

Book a free 15-minute Discovery Call - I will listen to your story and identify which area’s we can work on.

Once you decide to book the 1:1 six session zoom parenting course, I will email you a plan of what we will cover each session. After each session you’ll be emailed a summary and action plan to help you put everything into practice.

1 year Support Programme (after completing the 6 session 1:1 Parenting course) - You will be able to email me with any parenting issues you encounter and book up to two 1:1 follow-up Zoom sessions during the year.

Costs

- Initial 15 minute Discovery Call – free

- 6 session parenting course 1:1 via Zoom - £750 (free 7th session) The cost also includes email support between sessions

- 1 year Support Programme (email support, plus two 1:1 Zoom sessions) £500

Equipping you with the skills to meet your child’s unique needs and transform your family life.

You’re wondering if your child is autistic, but they don’t quite fit the criteria, or your child has been diagnosed autistic with a Demand Avoidant profile and you don’t know where to start. Parenting is completely trial and error, however if you’ve found that traditional parenting methods haven’t helped (or even worse, made your child’s behaviour more extreme) then it’s time to try my six session 1:1 parenting programme.

I radically changed my own parenting approach to meet my eldest child’s needs when she was aged 5 and use a low demand parenting approach which I can honestly say transformed our lives.

Who I work with

Parents I work with have children:
- boys and girls aged between 2-12
- diagnosed as autistic with a demand avoidant profile
- may be neurodiverse (no diagnosis) you think your child may be autistic but they don’t quite fit the criteria
- struggling at school and require an Educational Healthcare Plan
- behaviour does not respond well to traditional parenting methods
- twins
- sibling rivalry
- sleep difficulties
- anger and anxiety difficulties
- toddler tantrums